This is part 2 of my 2 part series on Stress & Weight Loss. In part one you learned:
- how stress can sabotage your weight loss efforts
- what is Cortisol
- how Cortisol effects your food cravings
- how Cortisol can effect where fat is stored on your body
- why products claiming to fix the Cortisol issue are questionable
In the 2nd installment on Stress & Weight Loss you will learn:
- the different types of stress that effect us all
- ways to manage your stress level
- other interesting techniques you can use to stay on track to successful weight loss!
As I discussed in part 1, we can all admit that when we are under a great deal of stress it is difficult for us to commit to our healthy eating plan. Many of us begin our day in a whirl-wind just to get on the road and on our way to work, not to mention all the stress of dealing with traffic. And once you are at work having to deal with the stresses of deadlines, annoying co-workers, demanding bosses, in addition to the responsibilities you have at home. It’s enough to make you just want to indulge.
I went on to discuss the hormones Cortisol (the stress hormone) and Serotonin (the feel good hormone) and how they each play an important role in food cravings, and fat storage. In part 2, let’s take a closer look at stress and ways to manage it so that it doesn’t sabotage your weight loss goals.
I think we can all agree that in this day and age, stress is a part of life. Whether it’s the baby crying, the irritability of a loved one, the endless deadlines at work, or the constant flow of bills, stress is a part of all of our daily lives. But not all stress is bad. In some cases stress actually assists us in being our best selves by increasing our awareness and attentiveness to a situation. For our discussion however, we are referring to the stress that sabotages your ability to be your best, specifically in sticking to your weight loss goals. I realize that in some circles, being stressed is considered “in-vogue” or “chic”, but there is nothing chic about the effects long term stress can have on your body, mind and life.
WHAT IS STRESS?
First off let me define stress. Stress is defined as a mentally or emotionally disruptive or upsetting condition occurring in response to adverse external influences and capable of affecting physical health, usually characterized by increased heart rate, a rise in blood pressure, muscular tension, irritability, and depression.
So basically, stress occurs when we are significantly thrown off balance mentally or emotionally, in response to external circumstances. This seems simple enough, but there is another important component that really makes this all come together.
Let me distinguish the difference between stress and stressor. A “stressor” is the precipitating event or situation which can cause a response of “stress”, mentally, emotionally or physically. That is to say that a stressor is only stressful if you deem it to be so. Usually we respond to a situation with stress when we feel that the situation, event or request is more than we are capable of dealing with physically, mentally, or emotionally. How you handle, or fail to handle the stressors in your life is what determines your stress level and your ability to maintain your commitments to your weight loss goals.
What’s even more important is to understand that everyone handles stress differently. We are not all stressed by the same situations to the same degree, or react to stress the same way, because it is based on our unique perceptions of the stressor. What is extremely stressful to one person, may only be mildly stressful to another person.
TYPES OF STRESSORS
There are typically two types of stressors that occur in our lives: 1.) Acute stressors which are similar to the flight or fight response, where you have an immediate physical response to the event, situation, or request and 2.) Chronic stressors which are directly related to long term exposure to situations in which you respond to in a stressful manner. What we need to understand and remember is that stress is as individual as styles and tastes of clothes. What one person finds intolerable, another person may not be bothered by at all.
Chronic stressors can result in numerous responses on several different levels such as:
- behavior – isolating oneself from others
- physical – having tension headaches, backaches or other aches and pains
- emotional – general irritability, depression
- mental – having trouble concentrating or remembering things
As a practicing psychotherapist for 7 years I also believe there are two other important stressor categories for us to consider:
1.) External Stressors – such as
- a new house,
- a promotion
- death of a loved
- getting a divorce
- car alarms
2.) Internal Stressors – such as
- Fear of public speaking
- Perfectionist or rigid demanding outlook on life (unrealistic expectations)
- Time management issues (over-scheduling your day)
It has been my experience over the past 11 years that the main culprit when it comes to stress sabotaging weight loss goals is chronic stress. I don’t deny that at different times and to varying degrees we all experience acute stressors, but more often than not it’s those chronic stressors, that day-in-and-day-out wear on you.
So let us recap for just a moment. First, we know that stress is a physical and emotional response to a circumstance, internal or external, that we believe is more than we can handle physically, emotionally or mentally. Second, we know that there are many types of stressors (acute, chronic, internal and external). However we are focusing on chronic stress because that appears to be the main culprit in sticking to your weight loss goals.
MANAGING YOUR STRESS
As we discussed above, stress is as unique as styles and tastes of clothes. The REAL issue is how each of us responds to a stressor. The first thing to do to learn to manage your stress level better is to start taking notice of situations that cause you stress. What type of unique response do you have and to what types of situations? Begin to notice your internal dialogue. What is it saying? Is it encouraging you to move forward or is it negative and self-defeating? This first step is important because once you effectively identify your stressors you are now empowered to change your reaction to them.
This second step is HUGELY important. Why? Because believing that you are capable of making the changes necessary to enjoy a better, less stressful life begins the process of healing. For instance, can you avoid the stressor altogether or at least minimize your contact and/or length of time with the person or situation that creates the stress? Or perhaps using positive self-talk and/or envisioning a more positive outcome to the situation prior to having the experience, is a way of decreasing the intensity of your stress.
Once you begin to believe that you can in fact change the way you respond to a stressor you can then begin to make the small adjustments towards experiencing less stress in the face of your stressors. You can look at whether you are viewing your stressors in exaggerated terms. Are you trying to please everyone? Are you being too rigid in your expectations? Are you dealing with an all too familiar situation and expecting a different outcome? Then take some deep breaths to slow your heart rate and help clear your thoughts. Look at these stressful situations as something you can cope with successfully. Now notice that you have a less intense reaction both physically and emotionally to a situation that at one time created great stress for you.
When you are able to notice a decrease in your reactions to situations that at one time caused a great deal of stress, you are on your way to managing your stress level. I recently had the pleasure of meeting an expert in the field of stress management, Dr. Cindy Brown. Feel free to visit her website (http://www.drcindybrownintl.com) to get her free report and even more EXCLUSIVE tips on how you can manage your stress.
Now that I have discussed the nature of stressors and what stress is, let me give you some real world examples of techniques you can utilize to manage your stress when it comes to sticking to your weight loss goals. As I discussed, stress creates many different reactions on a hormonal level, mental level and emotional level. Below are some tips that will assist you in making healthier choices in dealing with your stress rather than just indulging. I believe you are capable of sticking to and achieving your weight loss goals. Here are a few tips to keep you on track in the face of stress and cravings:
- Write in your journal the thoughts and feelings you are experiencing
- Do some type of exercise (go for a walk, or do some stretching)
- Treat yourself to a bubble bath or long shower
- Try on some old clothes to remind you of your goal and commitment
- Meditate or pray
- Work on a project like gardening, or painting that requires you to use your hands
- Do some chores household or outside
- Make a vision board or scrapbook to help you envision the body and life you want (cut out pictures of body types that appeal to you, as well as other items that remind you of your goals)
- Call a friend and share with them how your are feeling
- Remind yourself that you are in control of you! Don’t let someone else decide if you will succeed in your weight loss journey!
By taking the time to read this valuable information, you have already demonstrated that you are ready to achieve your weight loss goals. You have the information, now it’s time for action! To change, one has to move. You are now ready to handle stress, rather than it handling you. Move to a place of power in your life. I know you can do it! If you have any questions or have a unique situation let me you would like help with, please contact me.
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